Question 1

I'm a control freak and am really unsure whether I should hire a wedding coordinator or not. What's your expert advice?

Accepted Answer

It's totally understandable to feel nervous, especially when you've worked hard to create your perfect day and even more so, if you like being in control of the details. But hiring a wedding coordinator or planner can actually help you feel more in control on your wedding day, rather than less. Here are some examples. We don't take away your control - we work with you to execute your vision. You make the key decisions, and we handle the logistics so you can relax on the day itself. On the day, you don't want to be managing suppliers, checking schedules, or solving last-minute issues. We take over those tasks so you can enjoy the day without worrying about what's happening behind the scenes. Even with the best planning, things can go wrong on the day. We're experienced at handling last-minute hiccups, so you won't have to deal with anything unexpected - giving you peace of mind. If you're not comfortable handing over everything, we can offer 'on-the-day' coordination services. This means you handle all the planning, and we just manage the actual event, so everything runs smoothly for you. In short, a wedding coordinator can relieve you of the day-to-day stresses while ensuring everything happens exactly as you've planned. You'll still have control over your vision, but we make sure it happens perfectly!

Question 2

My husband-to-be works in the military. He'll be wearing his military uniform on the day. I want to surprise him with a few army-related gestures. Do you have any ideas?

Accepted Answer

It's the little touches that can make a big difference when honouring and appreciating his service. If you're wanting to unleash your creativity, one of the greatest ideas would be to focus on the Regimental, Corps colours along with the ever so iconic British Armed Forces 'green'. Known as 'Olive Drab'! However, be assured that the essence to your vision would be utterly vibrant on your special day and far from drab! A trending colour for bridesmaid's dresses is indeed olive green. Adding this colour to your nails also, would enrich the Military theme. Balloons, table runners, lanterns, candles, foliage and choice of flowers could assemble a Banquet Hall into a beautiful display with a military camouflage flair. Having a military tiered traditional cake tailored to the Service with toppers, infuses originality to the 'First Cut' experience, using the groom's ceremonial sword. It's a great idea to tie ribbons to the handle in the Regiment, Corps colours. Military themed, shaped biscuits are another addition as wedding favours. The most iconic 'Guard of Honour', also known as the 'Arch of Sabres' is an old English Army tradition. Consisting typically of six to eight people who stand opposite each other forming an arch with swords, where the bride and groom pass through the arch. However, the last two, drop their swords (Sabres) to block the newlyweds passing with a cross. This indicates for the groom to kiss the bride. The crossed swords are then lifted for the couple to pass on by. My last 'wedding wisdom' to add here, is for the bride. As you walk confidently down the aisle, in your wedding dress, bespoke to your personality and style, why not add a playful touch beneath! A handmade, silk military garter symbolising both your love and respect for your husband being in service. This unexpected accessory would be a welcomed tradition. A secret to all, yet a delightful surprise to your groom as he finds it! Made in his Regiment, Corps colours and with his insignia or cap badge.

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